True Love - Take a Leap Coaching

True Love

Our unconscious minds (in its desperation to help us recover from attachment wounds) adapt to certain connection strategies. Thus, we have a "comfortable" way we connect with others and we feel safe and in control. The interesting thing about praying and asking Abba Father to experience more...
Rejected or Set Apart.

Rejected or Set Apart?

Rejected or Set Apart? Elsa Cronje, Transformation Coach from Take A Leap Coaching, shares how our definitions lead to rejection. Rejection is one of the most common things that Yahweh’s children need to overcome.
Defeat that Feeling New Journey Starts 17 June 2020

A Journey of Inner Healing

Being a victim of toxic shame for 34 years is not a joke and certainly not a walk in the park either. It is after a yearlong personal overcoming journey with the Holy Spirit that I am free from shame. Was it easy? Was it fun? Certainly not, it was one of the most difficult and challenging things
Process Trauma - Take a Leap Coaching

Process Trauma

Process Trauma. I would like to share a traumatic event with you today, that CHANGED and saved my life. By sharing this, please, please, please keep in mind that the sole purpose of this story is to point out how Abba Father uses ALL life events to help us identify and remove unwanted patterns.
Lockdown - Christian Entrepreneurs

Lockdown & Christian Entrepreneurs

I would like to share this with you to encourage you and bring clarity while you are inside this cocoon. Why a cocoon? You are currently forced to change your thinking, behaviour, daily life and most of the things in your life because of this lockdown. Just like a caterpillar being inside that cocoon...
Exit the Triangle part 4

Exit the Triangle - Part 4

When I started writing this triangle series, I dreaded the persecutor because it is one of the roles I have been confronted with my whole life. Amazing how our unconscious minds remember trauma and when we are confronted with “similar” circumstances...
Exit the Triangle Part 3

Exit the Triangle - Part 3

Let’s be honest, everyone experienced trauma in their lives. Every single person responds to trauma differently. It is also impossible to label trauma because it will be different for each individual. You might experience something as traumatic when ...
Exit the Triangle part 2

Exit the Triangle - Part 2

So God created man in His own image, in the image and likeness of God He created him; male and female He created them. (Genesis 1:27 — The Amplified Bible) Welcome to part two positions. The driver behind the victim position is:
Exit the triangle part 1

Exit the Triangle - Part 1

The drama triangle is a pattern that most people engage in without even realising. It can also be embedded in our DNA/programming without knowing. Yes, we are all engaged in it without consciously being aware of it
Stop Controlling

Stop Controlling

Control is one of the oldest protecting mechanisms your mind uses. It is the ‘helper’ that fear calls after you have experienced trauma. Control creates the rules to prevent the past from re-occuring.
Stop Corrupting

Stop Corrupting

When we look at corruption, we often see it as the worldly definition of being dishonest and stealing in some or other way. When I received "stop corrupting" as #3, I had to pause and think about what Abba Father actually says about this. Corruption for me has a very deep meaning:
Stop Judging

Stop Judging

4 Things to eliminate from your life to ensure a victorious 2020."Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap.