Exit the Triangle part 4

Exit the Triangle – Part 4

When I started writing this triangle series, I dreaded the persecutor because it is one of the roles I have been confronted with my whole life. Amazing how our unconscious minds remember trauma and when we are confronted with “similar” circumstances…
Exit the Triangle Part 3

Exit the Triangle – Part 3

Let’s be honest, everyone experienced trauma in their lives. Every single person responds to trauma differently. It is also impossible to label trauma because it will be different for each individual. You might experience something as traumatic when …
Exit the Triangle part 2

Exit the Triangle – Part 2

So God created man in His own image, in the image and likeness of God He created him; male and female He created them. (Genesis 1:27 — The Amplified Bible) Welcome to part two positions. The driver behind the victim position is:
Exit the triangle part 1

Exit the Triangle – Part 1

The drama triangle is a pattern that most people engage in without even realising. It can also be embedded in our DNA/programming without knowing. Yes, we are all engaged in it without consciously being aware of it
Stop Controlling

Stop Controlling

Control is one of the oldest protecting mechanisms your mind uses. It is the ‘helper’ that fear calls after you have experienced trauma. Control creates the rules to prevent the past from re-occuring.
Stop Corrupting

Stop Corrupting

When we look at corruption, we often see it as the worldly definition of being dishonest and stealing in some or other way. When I received “stop corrupting” as #3, I had to pause and think about what Abba Father actually says about this. Corruption for me has a very deep meaning:
Stop Judging

Stop Judging

4 Things to eliminate from your life to ensure a victorious 2020.”Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap.
Stop Assuming

Stop Assuming

4 Things to eliminate from your life to ensure a victorious 2020 . Number one is — Stop Assuming. According to the New English Dictionary , “assume” means: • To take • To seize • To pretend to have • To take for granted
What does this actually tell us?
Blessings for 2020

Blessings for 2020

Praise be to our Living Father for waking up yet another day! I am honoured to be allowed to start 2020 by His GRACE that is sufficient! While everyone will be blessing you with encouragement and hope for 2020, I would like to share something with you that will come in handy in times of need …
Why do video Coaching with Elsa Cronje

Why do Video Coaching with Elsa Cronje?

Elsa Cronje was called to be a Transformation Holy Spirit – Driven Coach in 2012. Her passion is the well-being of people; to help them find their wings and teaching them how to fly. Abba Father gave Elsa this verse as the signature for her coaching:
Why is shame classified as rebellion?

Why is shame classified as rebellion?

We can demolish every deceptive fantasy[e] that opposes God and break through every arrogant attitude that is raised up in defiance of the true knowledge of God. We capture, like prisoners of war, every thought[f] and insist that it bow in obedience to the Anointed One
Why doesn't God save me from shame?

Why doesn’t God save me from shame?

Have you ever asked the question; Why doesn’t God save me from depression, rejection, fear, anger, jealousy, trauma, anxiety? When I experienced shame in a 100% intensity, being suicidal and in complete agony. I prayed and asked Abba Father to relieve me from this agony and just take away these emotions.