Exit the Triangle – Part 2

Exit the Triangle part 2

Part 2 – Exit the Triangle 

Transform from victim to creator

So God created man in His own image, in the image and likeness of God He created him; male and female He created them. (Genesis 1:27 — The Amplified Bible)

Welcome to part two of the Exit the Triangle series by Elsa Cronje, Transformation Coach at Take a Leap Coaching.

Today we will look at the victim entry point in the triangle. The victim entry position forms the basis of the other two positions. The driver behind the victim position is: “I cannot because I am still what happened to me — you need to save me. But you have to save me the way I want you to. Meaning, I do not want to do anything, you should do everything.”

Most of us live our lives as victims, meaning we unconsciously believe we do not have a choice. When we go through life unconsciously believing we do not have a choice, these are the consequences …

We constantly:

• find ourselves in situations we feel trapped in
• look for a saviour to save us
• blame circumstances, people, our past, God
• refuse to take responsibility for our choices and behaviour
• feel angry that we are always the ones that need to change